Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Supporting the VISIBLE Ministers

When you're involved in a VISIBLE ministry in a church, sometimes you have the opposite problem from those invisible ministers we looked at last week. "Visible" ministers are those whom everyone at church can see, in real time, doing ministry. They are the preachers, teachers, group leaders and worship team musicians. They are the ones who have chosen to take on a position, whether professional or lay, that puts them in something of a spotlight.

While invisible ministers can be hard to pin down ("Boy, I wish I knew who designs all those great advertising posters."), visible ministers can't be ignored. As such, they are often subject to a great deal more criticism than the church's invisible ministers.

Those who minister in positions where they are seen by so many other people do so because God has gifted them specifically to preach, teach, sing, lead, etc. Let's face it: getting up in front of a crowd is not everyone's cup of tea (or coffee, as the case may be.) It takes a special kind of anointing! But even those who enjoy being in front of people get discouraged when others feel that they are justified in doling out criticism, as if "they asked for it."

Here's how you can lend your support to all those "visible ministers" in your own church:

1) Recognize the emotional toll of visible ministry: Even for the most gifted orators, it takes a great deal of emotional energy to get up in front of a group of people and carry out whatever task God has entrusted him or her with. As such, it's best not to catch the pastor immediately after the service to criticize his poor grammar during his sermon. Nor should you comment to the pianist that her timing was off from the rest of the worship band. These kinds of comments are very defeating, and may actually sap what little energy the person has left.

2) Don't sweat the small stuff: If you sat through a compelling Bible study and all you came away with was the thought that the teacher's skirt was too short, you've missed the point. Focus on what's really important. And please, don't talk about her clothing choice with other people!

3) Cut them some slack: Because visible ministry can take such an emotional toll, visible ministers sometimes need to take a break from their ministries. This is okay! Even Jesus got tired and escaped to the hills to pray and find spiritual refreshment. Never criticize a visible minister for "not using his/her gifts." Besides, just because he or she isn't up front any more doesn't mean he or she isn't still serving somewhere.

4) Don't put visible ministers on a pedestal: People who serve as teachers and preachers and in various other public ministries are no different than anyone else in the church. They hurt sometimes. They get tired. And they even stumble. They're as human as every other church member.

And by all means, offer verbal thanks and encouragement. A word of thanks can be all it takes to restore that lost emotional energy.

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